Someone said, "Life means we develop from getting to giving". I think it is always a good idea. If we want to give, first we need to have the same. In order to have it, we shall earn it by industry and paurush. In this manner, whole world will benefit starting from us. As such from the moment we give something, our ego starts to swell. So in Bhakti, people say that we are not giving but only serving. Serving someone does not inflame our ego. But giving someone results in ego. Again we can sustain service mentality only if we see the same Brahmn in everyone and everything. Thereby energy of universe flows through us... Someone said, "Our Own Understanding is More Important than Others' Appreciation" We have been taught that story of a man walking with his son and a donkey and in the end they carry donkey on their head, because they always were influenced by what others said about them... The path which takes us to seek approval of others, takes us to a mess and...